The Body Is Not An Apology

Top 10 “What’s Up, Y’all?” Videos of 2020

May the lessons contained in each of these videos spark further discussion and carry us into the new year as brain, heart, and soul fuel and inspiration.

Sharing This Breath: What Sex Looks Like for Me As A Graydemisexual Ace

I practice sex from a place of inquiry that explores the question, “What if everything is sacred and/or meaningful?” From that place of inquiry, all acts of coming together meaningfully become open to being experienced as sexual acts for me.

Rejecting Fetishization and Lack: Claiming the Fullness of My Black Demisexuality

My gray demi asexuality is not about what I am without but more like where I am full.

10 Ways Your Social Justice Work Might Be Inaccessible and Elitist (And Why That’s a Problem)

Some oppressions are fostered by the very things supposedly set up to help justice spaces thrive.

7 Cosas Ridículas que no hay que decir a gente Bisexual

Las que voy a exponer a continuación ni siquiera son las peores, solo son las más reveladoras de los perjuicios escondidos que hay contra las personas bi.

How Do I Survive Deep Shame and Loneliness?

There is shame in wanting something we don’t have, when it feels outside of our control and we have no way to fix it. It is hard not to take it personally when you are the only person you know who isn’t in a relationship or who spends most of their time alone, not by choice. It can be challenging to sit with the feelings of not being chosen.

4 Ways I Live Well with Chronic Anxiety and Depression

Living well with chronic anxiety and/or depression is a challenge that I really wish fewer people had to face. Battling something that never seems to go away can feel frustrating and futile. But as far as I am concerned, good living is something well worth fighting for.

12 Signs Your Exhaustion Is Due to Emotional Labor — And How to Create Healthy Boundaries

Emotional labor should not be the physical labor through which we are exploited by capitalism, it should be the practice of loving through which we achieve personal transformation and collective liberation.

10 Strategies for Surviving Christmas Season With Family

For many of us, the holiday season is one of the most stressful times of the year.

“But He Never Hit Me”: How I Realized My Partner Was Emotionally Abusive

It was some time before I realized I loved the potential of who he could be, not who he actually was.

Letting Go of the Fantasy: 7 Ways to Heal Toxic Family Relationships

Sometimes the deepest healing comes from letting go of the illusion that your family member is a perfect person who knows how to love you the way you need them to.

How I Learned to be Naked: Listening to My Body and Healing Body Shame

I was preparing to be rejected. Instead I was greeted with applause and tears.

“Stop Looking At Your Phone”?: 5 Ways Internet Technology Helps My Queer, Neurodivergent Family

For some people, that iPad is as much a valuable tool as an electric wheelchair is for others.

10 formas de revisar tus privilegios en relación con trabajadores de la comida rápida y otros servicios

Lo que los trabajadores de la industria necesitan es, además de sueldos razonables y beneficios laborales, que se los trate con un mínimo de decencia y respeto, como todas las personas y seres vivos deberían ser tratados.

Help Isn’t a Favor: Creating Intimacy and Connection in Disability

The outliers are the ones who know just what to say. It seems so simple — How can I help? — but it unfurls like a revelation.

Sharing This Breath: What Sex Looks Like for Me As A Graydemisexual Ace

Rejecting Fetishization and Lack: Claiming the Fullness of My Black Demisexuality

7 Cosas Ridículas que no hay que decir a gente Bisexual

How Do I Survive Deep Shame and Loneliness?

4 Ways I Live Well with Chronic Anxiety and Depression

12 Signs Your Exhaustion Is Due to Emotional Labor — And How to Create Healthy Boundaries

10 Strategies for Surviving Christmas Season With Family

“But He Never Hit Me”: How I Realized My Partner Was Emotionally Abusive

Letting Go of the Fantasy: 7 Ways to Heal Toxic Family Relationships

How I Learned to be Naked: Listening to My Body and Healing Body Shame

10 formas de revisar tus privilegios en relación con trabajadores de la comida rápida y otros servicios

Help Isn’t a Favor: Creating Intimacy and Connection in Disability

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