1. The physical and the fantasy There are two ways I masturbate. Either I plug in the Hitachi Magic Wand and take a supersonic jet to the moon. Or I go slow and use a manual trance-mission. The second way takes me to Mars, Venus, sometimes other solar systems. The difference between the two ways is gray matter. The brain, the sexiest part of the body. My own … [Read more...]
8 Questions to Ask About BDSM and Respecting Boundaries
I came of age during a moment when lesbian feminist culture was booming – music festivals, women’s bookstores and lesbian feminist political projects were cropping up everywhere. And one of the most damaging and fallacious assumptions of that era was that women were inherently non-violent, that lesbian relationships offered a haven from abuse, that simply because … [Read more...]
