How I Learned to be Naked: Listening to My Body and Healing Body Shame December 17, 2019 by M. Robinson, Guest Writer Leave a Comment Content Note: This article references a parent's use of Weight Watchers for their child. I didn’t always hate and hide my body. I was athletic as a child. I swam competitively and played outside until the last drop of daylight. I trusted my body and knew it well. That changed when puberty hit in the fourth grade. I started to look more like a woman than a little kid, and a … [Read more...]
“Look At My Butt!”: How I Reclaimed My Right to Wear Whatever the Heck I Want October 2, 2019 by Rev. Katie Norris Leave a Comment My life has been plagued by people telling me what I can and cannot wear. They tell me not only what is supposed to look good on my short, pear-shaped body, but more distressingly, what I have to wear to be “acceptable.” I've been living a life of “good girls don’t wear that” as a youth, to “successful women don’t wear that” in college, to “female ministers don’t wear that” … [Read more...]
“I Can’t Believe She Wore That!”: What Shaming Others Reveals About Our Own Body Shame August 27, 2019 by Ginger Stickney Leave a Comment One day at the grocery store, I saw three young people walking through the parking lot. One of the girls wore short shorts. Very short shorts. And Ugg boots. I commented -- a lot. My children were with me. I didn’t think at the time about what they processed as I ranted about how short the shorts were. How ridiculous she looked wearing Uggs in July. My own words came back to me … [Read more...]
Are My Stretch Marks Worthy?: My Journey to Radical Self-Love June 26, 2019 by Claire Crescent Leave a Comment I was 11 when I learnt all about stretch marks. That they mean you are fat, and these marks will be there for everyone to know you are a fat person. My mum was looking at the marks on my arms, quite worried about some sort of strange rash I might have. At school I showed my "strange" marks to a friend. She calmly told me that they're just stretch marks, something you get if … [Read more...]
8 Ways Men Can Get More Honest About Body Shame April 13, 2019 by Philippe Leonard Fradet Leave a Comment No matter what gender or size you are, everyone has the potential to feel the effects of body shame. Although men, especially cis men, are typically less likely to admit that they feel ashamed of their bodies, that doesn’t mean such feelings don’t occur. It may not be displayed in very explicit ways, such as in the form of mental illness or eating disorders, but there is no … [Read more...]
This is My Summer Body Now: 5 Foolproof Ways to Steer Clear of Body Shaming June 21, 2018 by Philippe Leonard Fradet Leave a Comment Summer is here—or if you live in Louisiana like me, summer has been here since May, but I digress. For many of us, it’s time to say goodbye to the hoodies for lighter clothing options, like a slightly lighter-weight hoodie, or even a cardigan if you’re fancy. Those of us who identify as fat or chubby or what-have-you know, the moment we start shedding our attire to feel more … [Read more...]
From the Doctors to the Gym: Navigating Body-Shame In the Most Vulnerable Places March 11, 2018 by Kristen M. Polito, Guest Writer Leave a Comment I was scheduled for a doctor’s appointment that was meant to address the ongoing pain and lack of mobility in my left hip. The persistent injury was at its worst in last January, preventing me from even walking normally, much less going out for a nice long run. At the time, I substituted my running workouts entirely with low-impact cardio and, when I was disciplined, some … [Read more...]
When Meaning Well Does Harm: 4 Ways We Keep Socially Shaming Fat Kids & How To Stop February 20, 2018 by lkchary Leave a Comment It used to be that a fat child was source of pride to her parents. Chubbiness was the sign of a well-nourished child; a member of a family who could afford not only to feed her, but to indulge her. Rounded rosy-cheeked babies and adolescent girls grew into the “well-endowed” and physically sumptuous bodies painted by all the great artists and loved as Hollywood screen goddesses … [Read more...]
Stop Looking at the Scale?: Finding the Balance of #BodyGoals & Body Acceptance February 3, 2018 by Aabye-Gayle Francis-Favilla Leave a Comment When I discovered that I’d put on the matrimonial version of the “freshmen fifteen” as a newlywed, I set my mind to loosing some weight for the first time since college, when I’d spent the entirety of my first winter break over-eating the home-cooked meals I’d missed so much and copious amounts of pie. Loosing weight was easy then. All I had to do was return to walking to … [Read more...]
It Ain’t About Weight: Learning to Find Health At Every Size May 9, 2016 by Alysse Dalessandro 1 Comment At this point in my radical self love journey, the word “health” is much more triggering for me to hear than the word “fat.” In fact, fat is a word that I happily use to describe myself. I have found community and solidarity around a word that was once represented a deep wound. But the word health still stirs up a lot of emotions for me now; mostly because, it is often used by … [Read more...]
10 Ways Body Positivity is Changing the World for the Better April 7, 2016 by Gillian Brown 1 Comment As somebody who has been affiliated with the body positivity movement for the past five years, there is one thing that I can say with the utmost confidence: sometimes body positivity is really hard work. Call it the intrinsic nature of fighting an uphill battle, but when we spend our time and energy pushing against all the voices saying that our bodies are ‘wrong’ in some way … [Read more...]
