For people with marginalized identities, microaggressions are a constant reminder that we are less than. Oppression doesn’t always come in blatant forms. Often, it’s insidious and indirect. Sometimes it’s even unintended—that’s what makes it all the more dangerous. When we feel slighted by false praise that the commenter sees as positive, we’re told that we’re oversensitive and … [Read more...]
Telling People They Are Beautiful
I’m really active on Facebook. I like posting funny things I do/see, calling out to people for help, and seeing what my loved ones are doing. And I particularly enjoy commenting on pictures my friends post of themselves. My comments are sometimes funny, flirty, and almost always telling them that they’re beautiful. When I spend time with my friends, I jump on whatever … [Read more...]
