50 Ways People Expect Constant Emotional Labor From Women and Femmes July 10, 2019 by Suzannah Weiss, Guest Author Leave a Comment This article was originally published by EverydayFeminism.com and is republished with permission. The work of women and femmes is traditionally undervalued – we get paid less in nearly all professions. But there’s another type of work we’re often expected to do for no pay at all: emotional labor. Emotional labor is the exertion of energy for the purpose of addressing people’s … [Read more...]
Identidad de Género 101: La guía definifiva para analizar el género June 30, 2019 by Ana Maroto and West Anderson Leave a Comment En una cultura que al mismo tiempo está trabajando para romper con normas de género (Jaden Smith nombrado como la cara de Luis Vuitton para la colección de ropa de mujer primavera/verano 2016, David Bowie, Janet Mock) y sin embargo tenerlo cautivos (todas las reacciones negativas que Smith recibió), estamos adentrándonos en las formas en las que en realidad hablamos sobre el … [Read more...]
5 Ways Mexican Queerness Is a Radical Act Against Colonialism and Machismo June 22, 2019 by Erika_Ruiz Leave a Comment I am a queer non-binary person. The labels I use to describe this queerness are always changing and hardly ever stay static, but I am undoubtedly queer. I also come from a Mexican household. Both of my parents were born in the state of Jalisco and migrated to the United States when they were a young newlywed couple. I exist in the intersection of these identities as a queer … [Read more...]
My Queer Sex-Positive Life: Unlearning the Gendered Sexual Shame That Kept Me Disempowered May 8, 2019 by Jamila Reddy Leave a Comment This article was originally published by Jamila Reddy under its original title "Sex-Positivity Means Unlearning Shame" and is republished with permission. When I was five years old, my parents gave my sister and me a book called Where Did I Come From. Published in 1973, the book featured illustrations and explanations of how babies are made. On the front and back covers … [Read more...]
Women Don’t Need To Say “I’m Sorry” Less — Men Need To Say It More April 17, 2019 by Katie Tastrom Leave a Comment Many purportedly feminist articles, memes, and other “self-help” that tells people what to do have been urging women to “Apologize Less!” or “Stop Saying Sorry”. The advice comes from the idea that women should not apologize for things that are not their fault and should be more like men and take up space without worrying about what other people think. Fuck that. Women Don’t … [Read more...]
5 Ways West Indian Women Reinforce Patriarchy August 19, 2018 by Eriche Rochelle Leave a Comment This article was originally published on West Indian Critic and is republished with permission. One of the aspects of weaving intersectional feminism into your life as a Caribbean woman involves a lengthy process of unlearning the damaging ideas and beliefs thrust upon you by Caribbean society. Even if I once had a West Indian teacher wrongfully assert that the Caribbean is … [Read more...]
6 Ways Gender Stereotypes Make Mental Illness Invisible in Men July 25, 2018 by Philippe Leonard Fradet Leave a Comment Mental health issues affect everyone, no matter how you identify. This is true regardless of whether you receive a classic psychiatric diagnosis or work to recognize the symptoms of mental illness in your own life or in the lives of those you love. This fact comes as no surprise to many of us, but for some, there is a strong denial that they are affected by mental health … [Read more...]
3 Valentine’s Day Truths for Folks Living with Relationship Trauma February 13, 2016 by Maya Gittelman Leave a Comment Here it comes, before you know it, sneaking around the corner of the holidays every year: Valentine’s Day. Cuffing season begins just after Halloween, and Valentine’s Day serves as the punctuation mark, the big bright pink exclamation point. This season marks the long cold autumn and winter months that have the capacity to make even the most confidently single people crave a … [Read more...]
