people pleasing

Why I Stopped Wearing A Bra and Why It’s So Freeing

October 12, 2019 by Katie Tastrom Leave a Comment

Like many people who wear bras, I hate them. The best part of every day is when I get home and can take off my bra. I abandoned lacy and pretty bras awhile ago, then underwire had to go, and now for the last few years I've been wearing cheap sports bras. But no more. I realized the only reason I still wore bras at all is because of being sexually objectified by men. So I am … [Read more...]

Why I’m Done Being a “Good” Mentally Ill Person

October 10, 2019 by Sam Dylan Finch Leave a Comment

This article first appeared on The Establishment and is reprinted by permission. Content note: This article contains discussion of psychiatric hospitalization and briefly mentions suicidal ideation. I’m being buckled into a stretcher. Restraints are being placed around my ankles when a nurse walks by. “You don’t really have to use all the restraints,” she says to the … [Read more...]

6 Questions to Ask Your Partner When You Have More Privilege Than Them

October 5, 2019 by Anis Gisele, Guest Writer Leave a Comment

This piece was originally published by EverydayFeminism.com under the title "6 Questions to Ask If You Have More Privilege Than Your Partner" and is republished with permission. Content note: This article briefly alludes to suicidal ideation and eating disorders. I learned to be a girlfriend through ’90s American rom-coms. 90% of the time, I learned, I had to be … [Read more...]

6 Ways I Was Taught to Be a “Good Fatty” — And Why I Stopped

September 5, 2019 by Kitty Stryker, Guest Writer Leave a Comment

This article was originally published on EverydayFeminsim.com and is republished with permission. I wasn’t born fat. I came into fatness as a teenager. This was in part because of medication that increased my water retention drastically and in part because puberty gave me huge breasts, with a belly and thighs to match. And I was lucky, in some ways. My mother was also fat, and … [Read more...]

Why I Stopped Wearing A Bra and Why It’s So Freeing

Why I’m Done Being a “Good” Mentally Ill Person

6 Questions to Ask Your Partner When You Have More Privilege Than Them

6 Ways I Was Taught to Be a “Good Fatty” — And Why I Stopped

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